What is a relationship but nothing more then an experiment. An engagement ring these days is pretty much just an ego booster for the guy and I say that because I have witnessed more then a dozen broken engagements. A friend of mine was engaged and after a few years, one late night after hanging out at a bar with her, for whatever reason he felt the need to call a hooker in the wee hours of the night. After an amazing night, or at least I hope it was, karma kicked in and the hooker decided she wanted my friends shoes rather then her slutty hooker shoes and stole them. I guess you can call her a "thoughtful" hooker because she didn't leave my friend empty handed, she gave her the shoes she was wearing, her hooker shoes. We all know how that ended and all I can say is, Karma's a bitch ain't it? Haha
Other examples that I have sadly witnessed are the following: One guy calling off the wedding 3 weeks before because he was scared after being together for years. Why is it that the scaredness only occurs at the worst time possible? Like right before you are actually going to go through with something in your life. Why not right before you put that engagement ring on her finger? Another with the guy living in a different state and after asking for her hand in marriage decides to not return her calls anymore and think that it is okay to just decide, "Hmm I don't think I want to marry her anymore so I will just ignore her calls and she will just disappear, POOF BE GONE!" Sorry hunny but it doesn't work that way. Of course I have saved the best for last, going to Vegas for his bachelor party and sleeping with a dirty slut the day before he is supposed to spend the rest of his life with her. Ladies one word of advice, Do not take your eyes off your fiance until he is standing next to you in a tuxedo with that ring in his hand saying "I Do!" Wait who am I kidding, that doesn't mean anything, ladies your best bet is to just handcuff your guy to your wrist because if you don't then he WILL find a way to screw up somehow and break your heart, trust me, its in their genes. All I gotta say is "If I'm not your everything, then how about I be your NOTHING!
But the most fascinating part after all these relationships or shall I say disastrous outcomes of this game we call a relationship is that all these beautiful girls are a million times better off now without these 'game pieces' they called their fiances.
Why do we call it a relationship when it is more like a "game of luck?"
Whoa... that's a bit harsh though, don't you think? I understand that people get hurt, and usually the time I saw girls speak that way is because they've had, or seen so many bad experiences. But I think it's unfair to slap this as a rule on all guys. I'm sure, if you think about it, you'd be able to find just as many stories about some of your friends, who did find a guy, who did propose, who did actually say I do, and who are really happily married....
ReplyDeleteor even worse, have the girl be the subject criticism in your topic, and again, if you think about it, you'll probably find girls who screwed over the guy they're with.
I think to every facet that is negative, there is a corresponding positive, you just have to choose to see it.
my 2c.